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T H E C A R E G I V E R ’ S T O O L K I T
CHAPTER 1
EXPLORING CHALLENGES
Caregiving from a distance can
bring feelings of guilt, anxiety
and helplessness. How can you
effectively help take care of a
loved one from afar?
Long-Distance
Caregiving
During Visits:
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Observe carefully. Is your relative eating
well? Can he/she still take care of finances,
personal and household needs? How much
contact does your relative have with other
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Communicate honestly with your relative
and encourage their involvement in working
through problems.
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relatives and friends who are involved,
including neighbors and church members. If
they are already helping out around the house
(with meals, etc.), show your appreciation for
their work and encourage them to email or
call you collect if they have any concerns.
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are sturdy locks on doors and windows, good
exterior lighting, and no overgrown shrubbery
near the house. Properly safeguard valuables.
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drafted such as a will, power of attorney or
advanced directives (see page 28).
If You Have Concerns:
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Locator at
1-800-677-1116
or visit their
website at
www.eldercare.gov .In Harford
County, call
410-638-3303
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names of service providers and costs.
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your loved one can learn together about
services and programs that may be helpful.
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information you should bring to the meeting.
Harford County Department
of Community Services
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